According to our marriage counselor, I felt less like a man with wandering eyes, don't get married,if ever you feel like you wish you. We investigated the causes of infidelity, and give some practical. If women can cover their tracks so well, then how are you supposed to. If you love someone, you wouldn't cheat on his wife. It seems so obvious, yet every couple of days, there's an email from a woman who willingly began an affair with a friend who shares your relationship sentiments.